Sensual Fusion
Deep Dive Tantra Workshop for Couples
With Ruthi Forer
Florentine, TLV
Has it been a while since you’ve spent a full day alone together?
Have you attended my first level Tantra workshop and it left you wanting more?
Do you find it difficult to slow down and make time for your relationship?
Do you find yourselves having the same routine sex?
Do you find yourselves avoiding intimacy for fear it’ll lead to sex and you don’t have the tools to find something in between?
Do you feel the need to refresh your intimacy and sexuality?
Have you heard that tools from the world of Tantra can help improve your relationship and intimacy?
Do you wish to explore different forms of intimacy and touch in a safe and held space?
Are you ready to dive into a full day of connection, learning tools that you can take home with you?
After my divorce 10 years ago, understanding that sexuality could be different than what I had experienced, I dove into the world of conscious sexuality and Tantra, first having my own experiences, and then deciding to make it my profession so I could help other couples and hopefully save them time, money, and therapy. I wish to share with you the things I wish I knew back then.
I look around and from my own personal history and what I see daily in my clinic, so many people are not enjoying their sexuality with themselves and/or their partners. The passion many couples have when they first meet often dies down eventually. I see people having very scripted intimacy/sexuality, perhaps inspired by our education from Hollywood, books, and pornography. It’s not very conscious, and I don’t see many people really experiencing the sexuality they desire or tapping into deep pleasure.
Here’s where this workshop comes in, teaching you how to be more mindful in intimacy and sexuality, how to have erotic presence with yourself and each other. It’s a deep dive into Tantric exercises, learning how to slow down, pay attention to your breathing and sensations, practicing more intimate communication, noticing each other more, sinking into a different kind of intimacy, maybe one you’ve never experienced!
“When we have erotic presence, we can feel ourselves emotionally, energetically, and physically.”
When we’re present with each other, when we slow down, we begin to notice many pathways to pleasure that are available in the here and now, and we can follow them - not because we’re focused on some end goal, but because we want to enjoy the journey together!
I want to help people step away from their automaticity and connect more to the present moment, meeting themselves and each other moment to moment. What does that mean? Slowing down, paying closer attention, letting go of any goal/agenda, being exactly where you are.
“Awakening from automaticity enables us to engage more fully with life.” - Maci Daye
Having mindful sex doesn’t mean it’s slow or vanilla. It could actually be whatever you communicate and have consent for it to be, whether that be rough, kink, BDSM, etc. But there’s a lot more communication, slowing down, listening, and boundaries. It’s curious and allowing. When we have erotic presence, we can feel ourselves emotionally, energetically, and physically.
Testimonials
In this space, we’ll explore:
❤️ Different Forms of Touch
❤️ Boundary Work - Wheel of Consent & Desires/Fantasies
❤️ The Art of Slowing Down
❤️ Active Listening
❤️ Intimate Communication and Different Languages of Love
❤️ Exploration of Human Vibration
❤️ Connection to Sensations / Emotions
❤️ Tools from the world of Tantra and Conscious Sexuality to take home with you
WHO IS THE WORKSHOP FOR?
For Couples
✨ Couples who’ve been to my Tantra Beginners Workshop or another Tantra workshop and desire to take it deeper.
✨ Couples who are ready for a deep dive.
✨ Couples who feel it’s important to have a facilitator who’s also a therapist hold the space for whatever potentially can come up.
✨ Couples who wish to slow down and change their sexual routine.
✨ Couples who understand sexuality is an ongoing unfolding journey.
✨ Couples who want to rekindle the spark they had when they first met.
✨ Couples who are up for a different kind of adventure.
✨ Couples who are looking for new experiences.
What to bring with me?
👉 A shared vegetarian dish (I’ll send a document to fill out to make sure we have a variety).
👉 Comfortable clothing, closed bottle of water/hot drink
👉 Socks.
👉 Notebook and pen
👉 A gift for your partner - think quality, it could be small
👉 Any important or sentimental item, stone, oil you’d like to have around.
Sensual Fusion - Deep Dive
8
Couples Max
10:30
Start
Florentine, TLV
17:00
Finish
Next workshop date: September 6th, 2023.
Click here to sign up.
You can divide the payment into two payments via Credit Card
Cancellation policy:
Up to a week before the workshop and within 14 days of payment, you can cancel with the obligation to pay a cancellation fee of 5%.
In the event of cancellation within a week of the workshop, whatever the reason, full pay is required or finding another couple to take your spot and receive credit toward the next workshop.
My name is Ruthi Forer and I'm a VERY curious person.
Hi!
As a dedicated Somatic Practitioner, my commitment lies in assisting you to foster a deeper connection with your body, alleviate tension, and cultivate effective strategies for stress and trauma management. A significant part of my work involves empowering you to connect deeply with yourselves, enabling you to make clear, self-aligned decisions and navigate through your relationships.
Specializing in Sexuality, Tantra, Trauma/nervous system regulation, and Yoga Therapy, my approach is transformative and empowering. I firmly believe in the inherent healing ability within each individual and see my role as a guide in helping you unlock this intrinsic potential. The focus here is on you and how I can support your journey towards self-discovery and healing.
My Approach
My approach blends Yoga Therapy, Embodiment Yoga Principles, Sex Therapy (conversation), dynamic tools from Tantra Therapy, meditation & mindfulness, breathwork, TRE – Tension Releasing Exercises, Nonviolent Communication, Focusing, Family Constellation, Polyvagal Theory, and other somatic (body) approaches.
I offer in-person sessions in Jerusalem, Jaffa, and Tel Aviv as well as online. I accompany people on a journey to self-healing with these techniques, not only reserved for the field of sexuality.
I take a holistic approach, believing we are an organism comprised of many parts that interact with and influence each other. I am a curious person, empowering you to access your own inner healer and find your own voice and authenticity. I believe in authentic communication and being in touch and attunement with you and your individual pace.
I work deeply, going to the root of the symptoms. I believe whatever issues you’re facing, whether they be illness, physical symptoms, relationship issues, career path, etc, are just presenting symptoms of something far deeper. I help you uncover childhood wounds, patterns, and ways of behavior that are embedded in us, learning how to create and embody real change.
Our work together might confront you and will probably be challenging, and that’s okay! Everything is on the table to openly discuss. I believe the therapist-client relationship is an important one, a microcosmic of what you’ve got going on outside.
There’s no quick fix in healing. It takes time. I believe in “more is less”. Our nervous systems are delicate and need time to process and integrate change. You can sign up for a 10-session process with a very specific goal, but I recommend dedicating yourself to a journey, however long that will take. Because we are working with the body, the process is generally very effective. But it very much depends on you participating in the process.
It’s a cooperative journey, where the dedication and time that you put in will affect the outcome.
Education and Experience
- Certified Tantra Therapist with David Cohen Zedek (Masaot Halev) – מרכז אישתר – אומנויות האהבה והתפתחות התודעה
- Tibetan Tantra Workshop with Sanand Lev-Esh
- Somatic Sex Therapist with Noga Maivar and Maoz Yakov – התוכנית למיניות בגישה סומטית
- Navigating the Nervous System – Polyvagal Theory in clinical practice with Deb Dana, LCSW
- Family Constellation with emphasis on intimate relationships with Noga Maivar– Module I and II
- Focusing with Noga Maivar
- TRE® Advanced Provider – TRE for ALL, Inc. A Not-For-Profit 501 c3
- ISTA Level 1 graduate – International School of Temple Arts
- Neurogenic Yoga with Maria Alfaro– (TRE® + Yoga)
- Yoga Therapist – over 2,000 hours of continued education in Yoga Therapy, Yoga for Sexual Trauma, Yoga for a Happy Back, Trauma Sensitive Yoga etc…
- Nonviolent Communication with Michael Finkel and Yoram Mozenson
- Meditation, breathwork, mindfulness, Buddhism
- Facilitating workshops for 8 years and assisted at many weeklong intensive events, holding space, supporting
- Dynamic clinic in Jaffa & Jerusalem since 2019 helping people heal from trauma through the body, helping people with a myriad of sexual and relationship issues.
- Certified Reflexologist with Laura Norman
Questions And Answers
Tantra is a spiritual practice that originates from ancient India, which involves weaving together the physical and spiritual aspects of our lives. It encourages us to experience life fully and consciously, and in the context of relationships, it can help deepen the connection between partners.
Remember, this is a journey of exploration and discovery, and every couple’s experience with tantra will be unique. I look forward to guiding you on this transformative journey.
You’ll only be engaging and in physical touch with your partner. You’ll have the option to participate or take time out to rest. During the lunch or snack breaks, you’re welcome to talk with other participants as it suits you.
There’ll be emotional nudity; touch to genitals/erogenous zones allowed; no physical nudity.